Has anyone heard the song ‘Just a Kiss’ by Lady Antebellum? Have you taken a moment to really listen to what they’re saying? What about this:
“Just a shot in the dark that you just might
Be the one I’ve been waiting for my whole life
So baby I’m alright, with just a kiss goodnight”
Does anyone realize this concept, or what this could mean? How beautiful it is to think that he could be that person for me. We all think it, maybe not with each and every person we date, but we do think it more than one time. Unfortunately though, most of us are guilty of acting on this feeling. We assume forever and act accordingly.
Obviously, time and time again, Life tells you “no, this person is NOT it.” Yet some of us give ourselves so wholly and completely to that person, and then it ends.
How beautiful would it be if we all were okay with just a kiss. If we so wholly believe that he or she is the one for us, then why is it that we want more? If this person is supposed to be with us for the rest of our lives, then we should act accordingly to that belief and wait to give ourselves completely until that beautiful moment comes to us. Why must we rush it, always? The time will come for more.
I suppose the problem with our generation is that we are a now generation. I now want you, so I shall have you. I now want this, so I must have it right this second. We not only do this with our commercialism, but with our relationships; our choices for our hearts.
“I know that if we give this a little time
It’ll only bring us closer to the love we wanna find”
Time is all we need. Trust that.